Celebrating the Wins, Big and Small

Parenting a child with complex needs can be rewarding, but it can also feel overwhelming. Between appointments, school challenges, therapies, and daily responsibilities, it’s easy to focus on what’s next or what still needs to be done. Amid all this, it’s important to pause and celebrate the wins—both big and small.

Why Celebrating Wins Matters

Recognizing accomplishments boosts confidence, reinforces positive behavior, and helps both children and parents/caregivers feel proud of their progress. Celebrating wins also provides a moment to step back from stress and appreciate growth, resilience, and effort—often more meaningful than the end result.

Examples of Wins to Celebrate

• Small Wins: Completing a challenging homework assignment, trying a new food, managing a difficult emotion, or attending a therapy session without distress.

• Big Wins: Achieving a developmental milestone, succeeding in a social situation, or reaching a long-term goal.

Remember, what may seem small to someone else can be monumental for your child or family. Every effort counts.

Ways to Celebrate

• Verbal Praise: Acknowledge effort, progress, and courage with specific, encouraging words.

• Family Rituals: Create small traditions, like a “celebration jar,” where you add notes about wins throughout the week.

• Quality Time: Take a few minutes to do something fun together to honor achievements.

• Share Your Story: Let teachers, therapists, or friends know about successes—they’ll celebrate alongside you.

Celebrate Yourself, Too

Parents and caregivers deserve recognition for their own wins—managing stress, advocating for their child, or simply making it through a busy week. Taking a moment to honor your efforts is just as important as celebrating your child’s accomplishments.

Support and Resources

If you need support navigating challenges or want someone to celebrate victories with, the OFSN Parent Warmline is here for you: 1-833-732-2467. You’re not alone in this journey.

Celebrating wins—big or small—helps families build resilience, joy, and connection. Take a moment today to recognize something positive, no matter the size.